Showing posts with label pearls of wisdom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label pearls of wisdom. Show all posts

Monday, April 30, 2012

2012.04.30 Monday Morning Message

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, in Vinita, Oklahoma.

In the 1990's, my wife, Helen and I lived in the Lake Chapala area of Mexico, where I served as a "volunteer in mission" at an English speaking congregation, "The Little Chapel".

One Sunday morning I met a couple from North Carolina, snowbirds" as winter visitors were called.  Two weeks later I received a book from the couple, Soul Prints, by Rabbi Marc Gafney, an American living in Jerusalem.

I don't expect that I'll ever see this couple, but I'll be thankful as long as I live for their gracious gift.  
Soul Prints is a book which I highly recommend.

If, as I believe, most people do what they do in hope of finding happiness, in finding some sense of well being described by the word happiness.

Rabbi Gafney struck a deep chord in me when he wrote "happiness cannot be pursued...happiness is only achievable as a by-product of the pursuit of important goals - goals other than happiness itself."

Reading this, I remembered a line from Robert Burns that goes something like this:

"Believe me, happiness is shy,  And comes not aye when sought, man."

There are two pearls of wisdom for you to think about today.
If all we do is done for ourselves and our own, life becomes increasingly empty.

With blessings and in friendship,

Richard



The Reverend Nancy Covington will be in the pulpit this Sunday, May 6.  Communion will be served.

Keith Cresap is Worship Assistant.    The following Sunday, May 13 we celebrate the high school graduations of Madison Kroll land Caitlyn Spurgeon.  Also, we celebrate Mother's Day.

Monday, February 20, 2012

2012.02.20 Monday Morning Message

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, located in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma.


If you are in our area on a Sunday morning, come and worship with us.  If you are nowhere near Vinita, please say a prayer for us at 10:00 a.m., when our Sunday service begins.

One of Bernard Shaw's characters said, "It's easy to be respectable with nobody offering you a chance to be anything else."

Temptations visit all of us, and are the conflicting urges and drives that compel us to make choices between ideals and inclinations.  The Devil is a symbol of our human tendency toward evil, and while I do not believe in the existence of a personal devil, I do believe all of us live in a state of tension between impulses for good and impulses for evil.  God has endowed us with freedom of will.  Therefore, we must make choices!

I suspect our culture and environment have as much to do with the way we handle temptation as does our character and temperament.  For me, this means I must take care when I feel moved to be censorious about others.  Not having experienced their temptations, I need to be more understanding of them as they struggle with their moral and ethical temptations.

With blessings and friendship,
Richard


A PEARL OF VALUE

"THE SIN OF THE WORLD EXISTS NOT BECAUSE OF A FEW PEOPLE ARE SPECTACULARLY SINFUL, BUT BECAUSE MOST OF US ARE AS GOOD AS WE ARE AND NO BETTER."

  WILLIAM TEMPLE, ARCHBISHOP OF CANTERBURY


DR.  JEFF FRANCIS WILL FILL THE PULPIT SUNDAY, FEB. 28.  SARAH BRUCE IS WORSHIP ASST.  JOYCE DISHMAN, ORGANIST

Sunday, February 5, 2012

2012.02.06 Monday Morning Message

 
Greetings and best wishes from all of us at Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, Vinita, Oklahoma.  

It may be a sign of old age, but I know that life's arithmetic means that for every new year we celebrate, we can subtract a year from our life.


That sounds pessimistic, but what I mean to say is don't wait too long to do what you want to do.


In too many simple things we wait too long to do them.


  • Don't wait too long to show kindness.
  • Don't wait too long to speak or write a word of encouragement.
  • Don't wait too long to express your love and thanks to elderly relatives.
  • Don't wait too long to love and enjoy your children and grandchildren.
  • Don't wait too long to read the books and listen to the music that enlarges your mind.
  • And of course, don't wait too long to practice a daily quiet time when you strengthen your inner spirits.


Life goes by quickly.   Don't wait too long to do the things you want to do!


With blessings and in friendship,
Richard


"The PAST is where you
learned the lesson

The FUTURE is where you
apply the lesson.

Don't give up the Middle!"

Monday, January 16, 2012

2012.01.16 Monday Morning Message

Message from the archives of Richard Evans:

2008.10.06 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, located in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma.

People consult the stars and tea leaves in an effort to unveil the future. However, if we knew what was going to happen tomorrow and the day after, and all the tomorrows that are to be, wouldn't life lose its zest and excitement? It would be boring to play out life mechanically! Thank God we are not robots. We have freedom to determine the shape of our tomorrows by what we do today.

Our future depends largely on what we place in store for the future. Not the stars, nor cards, but our own actions will determine the shape of things to come.

Our "Pearl of Value" comes from Viktor Frankl's book Man's Search for Meaning:

"Turn your predicaments into achievements - you have that capacity."


With blessings and best wishes,
Richard

Monday, August 8, 2011

2011.8.8 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma.

Today, I want to put in a good word for the gift of receiving.  It is commonly said that it is more blessed to give than to receive, but I've learned there is virtue in receiving as well as in giving.

We praise people for doing good things for others, but who refuse to take any credit, any gift, any reward, for doing so.  People like that should give others a chance to say thank you and show their gratitude.  It is a fine thing to give, but it can be a mark of pride to refuse to receive thanks for acts of kindness.

Jesus received a boy's picnic lunch, and with it worked a miracle.  (John 6:1-14).  And He received the offer of the use of a room by some anonymous friend in Jerusalem, and used that room to institute "The Last Supper".

There is a courtesy in receiving as well as in giving.  When the two meet, who knows what 'miracle' will follow?

With blessings and in friendship,
Richard

"A PEARL OF VALUE"
We're taught that it is more blessed
to give than to receive, but receiving
is also important in the development
of our soul.

Monday, August 1, 2011

2011.8.1 Monday Morning!


Top of the morning and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma.

Ancient Jewish teachers often strung together power packed thoughts and ideas without commentary.  Good examples of this teaching pattern are found in the Beatitudes,  Matthew 5:1-11, and Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, as well as throughout the
book of Proverbs.

This method had a certain appeal to me, and several years ago I began collecting short statements for motivation or inspiration, or both.  I call them 'Pearls of Value', and I've been stringing each 'Pearl' on a  make-believe necklace which hangs in my study, and to which I add 'Pearls' discovered in my reading.

Here are a few of my 'Pearls'.  Perhaps you'll begin collecting your own 'Pearls' and sharing them with me.  Together we ought to have a wonderful collection of motivation and inspiration!

        "Time can be either an ally or an antagonist.  It depends on
          how we look upon time and how we use it."

        "Not one who has much is rich, but one who gives much..."

        "It often takes a serious threat to our blessings to make us
         aware of them.  And, sadly, sometimes we do not value
         them until they are gone before retrieving."

Understanding/interpretation of each 'Pearl' depends on the reader/listener.

Cheers and all the best,
Richard

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Pilgrim's Progress, Newsletter for July 2011


PILGRIM’S PROGRESS
Voice of the Pilgrim Presbyterian Church
Vinita, Oklahoma
July, 2011

A Pastoral Letter

Dear friends,

We don't always know what's going on inside our bodies.  I was pleased when a recent PET Imaging report read "No cancer in his body."  But, I still felt tired – fatigued.  That, with what I thought was an anxiety attack, forced me one night to go to a nearby Urgent Care Clinic.

I was advised to go to the hospital, which I did.  For the next couple of days I had, what seemed to me, an endless string of tests.  New health problems were disclosed.

A pacemaker was inserted in my chest, and I was send home promising doctors "to take it easy for awhile".   Apparently I'm too weak (or probably too old) for further treatment at the present.

To make a long story short,  Session has granted me a "leave of absence" until mid-September.  At that time our relationships will be evaluated.

I miss you already!  You are a gracious, caring congregation and I am proud and honored to be a part of Pilgrim's extended family.

Please pray for me as I pray for you.  I think of you at the ten o'clock Sunday morning hour as you gather for worship.

With blessings and affectionate regards.

Richard
"PEARL OF VALUE" 
"For freedom, Christ has set us free."






~~Notes from Session~~

Seven member of Session met informally on Sunday, June 26th.  Terry Brown submitted the May 2011 Treasurer's  Report.

Session approved placing the church manse for sale, and Bow Bailey has agreed to show the property to any prospects.  Session also approved the use of the church on August 6th or August 13th for Burroughs Manor activities under the direction of Paula Butcher.

Our Pastor, Richard Evans, has asked to take a leave of absence until Sunday, September 11, 2011. Richard will continue the Monday Morning and Blog ministry during this time.  Session approved Richard's request, and noted that we are looking forward to his return to the pulpit this fall.

Irene Conine, Worship Chairwoman, has been in charge of calling replacement pastors while Richard is away, and Session would like to extend our heartfelt thanks to Irene.

The Worship Assistant for July will be Keith Cresap and Communion will be prepared on Sunday, July 10thby Sarah Bruce.  The Worship Assistant for August will be Joyce Dishman, and Communion will be prepared on Sunday, August 7th by Shirley Spaulding

Sue Ratcliff
Clerk of Session  

THE PRAYER LIST

            Please remember the following individuals in your daily prayers: Richard Evans, John Burckhalter, Mary Draper, Vera Tresler,  Louise Gullett, John Gullett,  AnnaBelle Mitchell, Patricia Hemphill. Pat Robinson, Joan Dirmyer, Clell Goodpaster. Families of recent tornado tragedies.  Please also remember our service men and women.

AnnaBelle  and Melba are in Heartsworth House. Anna Bell is #114 and Melba #115  821 N. Foreman, Vinita, OK 74301.

       John Burckhalter is returning home July 2 after  eight months therapy in Tulsa.  Continue to keep him and the family in your prayers.


~~Notes from Deacons~~

Deacon's meeting
The Deacons met on June 19th to make plans for the Potluck Dinner to be held on June 26th.  Next meeting will the July 17th.
Next fellowship meal will be  a picnic in August.

Jewell Morgan, reporting


Church birthdays are celebrated on the 2nd Sunday of the Month – July 10th – Toni Moore will supply the birthday cake.
           
July 4, Kitty Brown, 5 Jewell Morgan, 7 Madison Kroll, 12 Wally Olson, 14  Pat Boone, Blake and Mox Osburn, 20 Fred York, 22 Walter Rapp, 24 Emily York and Keith Cresap

Monday, June 13, 2011


Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, in Vinita, Oklahoma.

Richard has recently spent some time in the hospital for more than one reason.  Please keep Richard in your prayers...
Peace and Love,
Brian



The Following is a Pastoral Letter taken from the June 2011 Pilgrim's Progress...


Dear friends,

How is your "Bible I. Q."?  Have you ever wished it was higher?

Since last fall, a group of between sixteen and twenty people have attended an adult study – "To Know My Bible – 101".  The Class will wind down on June 12, but will reconvene in September.

If you are satisfied with your "Bible I. Q." this basic course isn't for you.  Try this little quiz to see if you qualify to attend a '101' course:

  1. Which Gospel was the first to be written?
  2. Who wrote the two biggest books in the New Testament?
  3. Who was the first known martyr among early Christians?  (Acts 7:54-60)
  4. Who became a follower of Jesus after his conversion on the road to Damascus? (Acts, chapter 9)
  5. At which Jewish Festival were the followers of Jesus "filled with the Holy Spirit"? (Acts 2:1-4)


If you qualify, and if you desire to improve your "Bible I.Q.", prepare to attend the Class by reading the four Gospels and the Book of the Acts of the Apostles.

Ours is not a Bible reading ages, and the result is spiritual malnutrition.  That's a disease you can avoid IF you desire to learn more about the most wonderful, influential Book in the world.

With best wishes and fond regards,

Richard

PEARL OF VALUE
"For freedom, Christ has set us free."

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

2011.6.06 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church!

Still going strong at the corner of Thompson and Illinois, in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma. Our Sunday service begins at 10 a.m....you'll be welcome, if you can attend. If you can't be with us, please say a little prayer for us. We do remember you, our MONDAY MORNING FAMILY, in our thoughts and prayers.

Here is a "Pearl of Value" which comes from one of our church members:

"Knowledge is not likely to enter the head
when the mouth is open."

God endowed us with two ears but only one mouth. Yet, for most of us, the ears are in semi-retirement while the mouth is overworked. There is a great deal of talking, even shouting, but very little listening.

Listening is not easy. Listening with the whole person requires discipline, patience and caring.

When God appeared to King Solomon in a vision , and offered him any gift he wishes, Solomon asked for "a listening heart." Listening is not done alone with ears, it is also done with the heart."

Fondest Regards,
Richard

Monday, March 14, 2011

2011.3.14 Monday Morning!


Top of this MONDAY MORNING from Pilgim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma.

The tendency to put off today until tomorrow things we already put off until today is not uncommon.  I'm guilty.  I've been putting off a collection of information for my tax accountant.  After all, the deadline isn't until April 18, or is it the 19th?

This "delay tendency" touches us all at many points of our lives.  When I retired I thought that I would have plenty of time to do things I couldn't do when working full time.  Not true for me, at least.

We live in this world that gives us one day at a time, without assurance of tomorrow.  Today is ours to do the things that need doing now.  Promptness is important, a virtue which includes worshipping with one's community of faith and renewing one's inner life through daily prayer and meditation.

I just had a phone call from my doctor's office reminding me of an appointment I have tomorrow.  Can't put that one off.

With blessings and in friendship,
Richard

A PEARL OF VALUE
Don't put off until tomorrow what should
be done today.  Our time is not limitless -
do what you ought to do now.

Monday, March 7, 2011

2011.3.7 Monday Morning!


Top of the morning from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, in Vinita, Oklahoma.

Today, I share with you a story about a fictional woman, who you'll not find in Pilgrim Church. Nevertheless, you may have met this woman some time, somewhere.

She is vivacious, strong and capable, and very pious. Faithful to worship services at her little Church on the corner of Wisconsin Avenue and Ninth Street, she nods her head and shouts "Amen" whenever her minister condems drinking, dancing, movies, gambling, and Sunday sports events.

One Sunday her pastor preached against harm caused by gossip, and as he droned on (some preachers never know the value of short sermons), she could keep silent no longer.  In a loud whisper, heard throughout the congregation, she said: "Now he's stopped preaching and started meddling."

You don't know any self-righteous person like our fictional woman, or do you?

Peace and in friendship


Richard



A PEARL OF VALUE
"Minds like parachutes are valuable only when open!"



Monday, February 28, 2011

2011.2.28 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, in Vinita, Oklahoma. Thank you for your "visit" today. We hope you'll come again and that you'll share our address with friends.

Miss Lyons, my 4th grade teacher at Winslow School, in Racine, Wisconsin, loved poetry and instilled her passion for it in the lives of her students. This line jumped into my mind last week: 

"I shot an arrow into the air, it fell to the ground
I know not where."
Too often our "arrows" take the form of ugly, hurtful words. We "shoot off our mouths" without thinking, and our words cannot be retrieved.

Far better than anything I can say about the use of words is to be found in the short epistle of James; yes, it is in the New Testament. Try to read James, chapter 3, sometime this week.

With blessings and in friendship,

Richard


A PEARL OF VALUE
"The tongue can witness to the
truth and can spread falsehood."

Monday, February 14, 2011

2011.2.14 Monday Morning!


Valentine greetings!  Thank you for visiting our Pilgrim Presbyterian BLOG.  While buried in snow in Vinita, Oklahoma, our Valentine wishes for you are warm and sincere.
 
A young friend was quite upset when I saw her at a card shop in a Tulsa mall.  She didn't like the idea of having to buy a Valentine for her boss to send to his wife.
 
That is hardly a picture of the true meaning of this lovely, sentimental day.  I think it is important for children and adults to know and understand that love is something to count on within families and close circles of friends.  There is something amiss when one has to "farm out" genuine sentiment and love.
 
To forget to share, to communicate, individual love is a failure to express the deepest feelings of one's life.
 
It's Valentine's Day!  I hope you'll receive and give a true expression of individual love.
 
Richard
 
A PEARL OF VALUE
 
While we have loved ones, we ought
to tell them of our love and gratitude.
 

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

2011.1.17 Monday Morning!


Greetings and all good wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma.
 
Today, in the USA, we observe Martin Luther King Day.  A remarkable man of peace and good will, he was flawed like all of us.  We can learn from him that God uses imperfect people in extraordinary ways.  Throughout the Bible one finds God using imperfect people to do his will, which is the well being of all creation.
 
Dr. King's son wrote these words which challenge each of us to live the dream of his father:

    "I pray that all Americans will embrace the challenge of
      social justice and the unifying spirit that my father shared
      with his compatriots.  With this commitment, we can begin
      to find new ways to reach out to one another, to heal our
      division, and build bridges of hope and opportunity
      benefiting all people.  In so doing we will not merely
      be seeking the dream, we will at long last be living it."
 
With blessings and in friendship,

Richard

A PEARL OF VALUE
    When we learn to respect ourselves
it becomes easier to respect others.
               
 

Monday, January 10, 2011

2011.1.10 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, OK.

A good friend in the congregation gave me a story called "Grandpa's Hands." It begins with Grandpa, some ninety plus years, staring quietly at his hands. His grand-daughter said: "I don't mean to disturb you, but you are just sitting here staring at your hands and I want to make sure you are ok."

"Have you ever looked at your hands?", Grandpa asked. The grand-daughter slowly looked at her hands and said, "No, I guess I've never really looked at them," trying to make out the point he was making.

"Stop and think for a moment about your hands and how they serve you," Grandpa said. Then he added: "My hands, though wrinkled, shriveled and weak have been tools I have used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace life." The story continues with Grandpa explaining the many, many ways his hands identified him and helped to serve God and others.

We often take for granted what we have until we lose them.

Look at what you have, not what you don't have, and give thanks.

Cheers,

Richard


A Pearl for the Week:


The Serenity Prayer

"O God, give me the serenity to accept

what cannot be changed, courage to change

what should be changed, and wisdom to

distinguish the one from the other."


Wednesday, January 5, 2011

2011.1.03 Monday Morning!


All of us at Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma send you greetings and best wishes at the beginning of this New Year.
 
God loves stories.  The Bible revolves around stories, and Jesus was a master story teller.  I hope you like stories.  In reading folk lore you"ll find wisdom to help on your life's journey.
 
The story of Jacob, in Genesis, is about a spiritual traveler.  Like all of us, Jacob was flawed.  After tricking his brother, Esau, and deceiving his father, Isaac, Jacob ran away from home.
 
Decades later, Jacob decided to return to his home and people.  Enroute he spent a long night wrestling with an unidentified man.  Was it his own conscience?  Guilt often ignites civil war within .
 
In that all night nightmare, Jacob realized God's presence was with him.  He asked himself:  "Am I traveling in the right direction?"  And he determined that the right direction for him was to trust God, and to affirm God's presence by practice - to treat others the way he wanted to be treated.
 
Happy travels in the right direction in this New Year.
 
In friendship,
 
Richard


A PEARL OF VALUE
When we learn to respect ourselves,
it becomes easier to respect others.


Monday, November 15, 2010

2010.11.15 Monday Morning!

Top of the morning and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, located in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma.
A week ago, on a beautiful Sunday morning (Nov.7), our congregation met for devotions in the Sanctuary and then "car-pooled" to Pheasant Hill Cemetery, about 7 miles out of town.  It was our annual pilgrimage to the area where Presbyterian missionaries founded Pilgrim Church 128 years ago.
There, under a bright sky, and framed by a brilliant splash of colorful autumn leaves, we celebrated Holy Communion.,  We gave thanks for a goodly heritage, while acknowledging that life is a journey of limited time for each of us.
A genuine faith in God expresses appreciation for the past, and then offers a sensible declaration and demonstration of the story of Jesus today.  Don't let the precious, irretrievable moments of today slip by you.  "This is the day the Lord has made, be glad and rejoice in it."
Cheers,
Richard


A PEARL OF VALUE:
"Write it on your heart that every
day is the best day of the year."

                                Ralph Waldo Emerson

Monday, November 8, 2010

2010.11.08 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes to each of you, our extended family. 
Thanks for visiting us "off site/on line".


Perhaps another birthday, fast approaching, has caused me to think about aging. Aging is an undefineable thing. Despite the date on your birth certificates, I know some people who were never really young, and others who never seem to be old. Where does the spirit of youth come from?

I think that spirit comes from "interests". People who have little or no interest in things outside their job are likely to become bored. Boredom is a major cause for a feeling of emptiness. What keeps a person really alive is interest.

Interests differ from person to person. We need not grow old in God's world of wonder, and in the world of human relationships.

Learn to be interested and stay young in spirit!

Cheers,
Richard


A PEARL OF VALUE:
To live all the days of our life
is to live fully with our whole being,
with heart and mind and spirit.  It means
"to act justly, to love kindness and to
walk humbly with God."
(Micah 6:8)


Monday, November 1, 2010

2010.11.01 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, located in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma.  Thanks for visiiting us.  I hope you find our weekly messages helpful.
There is a golf course near our home, and when I saw golfers playing in a light drizzle last week I wondered what it is about the game that makes so many ardent enthusiasts.
Then I thought back to my youth when I played golf, rather poorly I confess.  Yes, though a poor golfer I went to the links with hope of getting a birdie on the long four and sink a 20 yard putt at any hole.  Golfers go with the hope of doing NOT what they do at their worst, but what they can do at their best. Isn't that the way we ought to live?
It is stifling to be perfectly satisfied the way we are.  The  golfer is driven by the hope that the next 18 will be better than the last.
To aim at our best means never to abandon hope that we can do better.


A Pearl of Value for this week:
"Keep what is greatest of all, keep your hope."

Our annual Thanksgiving Dinner will be held November 14 following morning worship at 10:00 a.m. and Congregational Meeting at 11:00 a.m.

Monday, February 8, 2010

2010.02.08 Monday Morning!

MONDAY MORNING greetings from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, in Vinita, Oklahoma.

Last week I got an email from a friend, Don Grant. While riding his motor scooter on East Admiral Place in Tulsa, his wallet slipped out of his pocket. When he returned home and discovered his loss, he wrote "I was sick, sick, sick." When a phone call came from a man who had found the lost wallet, and who arranged to meet Don to return it, Don was well.

Yes, as Don said, "there are plenty of honest folks around."

Truth and honesty are woven into the human soul, but it takes effort to cultivate them. When one nurtures ones inner life, good character results. Our outward, visible life is bound up with our inner attitudes.

For better or for worse, the "stuff" that steers and directs us are the "stuff" of our choice, our decisions.

Here's a "Pearl of Value", sent by Brian Dishman, who lives in Japan: "Nothing is either good or bad but thinking makes it so." (William Shakespeare)

Thanks, Don and Brian, and thanks to all of you in our Monday Morning family.

Richard