Showing posts with label Keeping In Touch. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Keeping In Touch. Show all posts

Monday, May 21, 2012

2012.05.21 Monday Morning Message

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma. 

Founded in 1871, Vinita is the intersection of several railways. It is the second oldest town in Oklahoma, and is the oldest incorporated town along historic Route 66. If you are visiting on a Sunday morning, please worship with us at 10:00 a.m. If you can't be with us in person, say a little prayer for our worshipping congregation.

Do you ever feel lonely? I was stunned to read a report of an AARP survey which states that 35% of adults over the age of 45 are chronically lonely, up from 20% a decade earlier.

Sixty million Americans are unhappy with their lives because of loneliness!

I am sure that there are many reasons for people feeling lonely. Could the modern social media be one? Facebook and Twitter, exchanging 'clicks', avoids human face to face conversation. Some studies report that one in four Americans have 'zero close friends'.

Why do you think there is so much loneliness in our society? Let me know.

Are you conscious of the presence of God in your daily life?


With all good wishes,
Richard

Announcements:

  • Our minister for Pentecost Sunday, May 27 will be Craig Kilgour. He is the minister from New Zealand.
  • The next Sunday, June 3 we will have a family meal and welcome Ken Bailey and his wife Jeannie. Ken is the brother of Bow Bailey and they live in Kentucky.
  • Red Morris will be barbecuing pulled pork and the congregation is asked to bring salads and desserts. The rest of the meal is provided.

Monday, March 26, 2012

2012.03.26 Monday Morning Message

Greetings and best wishes from the Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma.  


We want to KEEP IN TOUCH with our members and friends with our Monday Morning Messages.  We have asked them to send it to their friends, if they find the message worth sharing...that may be the reason you are reading this.

If you write me, with a prayer request, please be assured that I'll personally respond.

With blessings and all good wishes,
Richard

"For want of a nail, the shoe was lost.
For the want of a shoe, the horse was lost..."
and so on.  The loss of the horse led to the 
loss of the rider, the battle, and finally
the kingdom itself.  All for want of a nail.
And, the meaning of this simple poem is
PAY ATTENTION TO LITTLE THINGS!

Little things have triggered great discoveries!
a spider's web and a suspension bridge
a singing tea kettle and a steam engine
a falling apple and the law of gravity.

Little things may have great consequences!
PAY ATTENTION TO THE LITTLE THINGS!


EASTER BRUNCH
FOLLOWING MORNING WORSHIP PALM SUNDAY, APRIL 1
COME AND ENJOY THE FELLOWSHIP
ALL FOOD IS PROVIDED

One Great Hour of Sharing Offering will be taken

Sunday, February 5, 2012

2012.02.06 Monday Morning Message

 
Greetings and best wishes from all of us at Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, Vinita, Oklahoma.  

It may be a sign of old age, but I know that life's arithmetic means that for every new year we celebrate, we can subtract a year from our life.


That sounds pessimistic, but what I mean to say is don't wait too long to do what you want to do.


In too many simple things we wait too long to do them.


  • Don't wait too long to show kindness.
  • Don't wait too long to speak or write a word of encouragement.
  • Don't wait too long to express your love and thanks to elderly relatives.
  • Don't wait too long to love and enjoy your children and grandchildren.
  • Don't wait too long to read the books and listen to the music that enlarges your mind.
  • And of course, don't wait too long to practice a daily quiet time when you strengthen your inner spirits.


Life goes by quickly.   Don't wait too long to do the things you want to do!


With blessings and in friendship,
Richard


"The PAST is where you
learned the lesson

The FUTURE is where you
apply the lesson.

Don't give up the Middle!"

Monday, January 30, 2012

2012.01.30 Monday Morning Message

Greetings and best wishes from all of us at Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, Vinita, Oklahoma.  


We are a congregation with a big heart overflowing with loving care and concern. I know this to be true from personal experience. Because of poor health, I have had to resign as part-time pastor. Friends in the congregation have overwhelmed me with their kindness.

So...this is "Thanksgiving time for me"...KUDOS to Jewell Morgan, church secretary at Pilgrim Church, and Brian Dishman, editor of the Pilgrim Church Blog. They have kept our "on site, on line" ministry on track.

     ...Thanks to each of you who have sent cards and notes.  Each one has buoyed my spirit.

     ...Thanks for the food, for the thoughts and prayers, which have helped me regain strength.

     ...The attractive, unique album you have given me is filled with beautiful words from cover to cover. Sentiments in the album are humbling, especially those I know to be a little exaggeration.

And, I am thankful to friends in Grace Presbyterian Church, Grove, where I served for six years as a part-time minister, and to members of John Knox Church, Tulsa, where I was pastor for more than ten years, for comfort and concern.

I shall always cherish the friendship of each of you.

With blessings and affectionate regard,
Richard

Monday, December 26, 2011

More Christmas Photos!


The Cowley family lit the Advent candle Dec. 4

Jori, Jeanne, Shandy, Autry and Alan Cowley


The Children's Bell Choir played the handbells for the Congregation on December 11th!



Everyone please thank Jewell Morgan for taking the time and effort to provide us with pictures of Church life!

I would also like to ask that anyone who can send pictures of the goings on at Pilgrim Presbyterian to send them to me.  Jewell has my address and will be quite happy to give it to you.  

Peace and Love! 

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

2011 December PILGRIM’S PROGRESS

PILGRIM’S PROGRESS

Voice of the Pilgrim Presbyterian Church

Vinita, Oklahoma
December, 2011



"A Letter from the Sidelines"


Dear friends,

It's December already and I hope you are making a meaningful personal journey through Advent to the Cradle of the Christ child.

There are many Bible passages to read during Advent, but I hope you won't miss these:
Isaiah 9:2-7; 40:1-11; 53:1-6
Luke, chapter 1, especially note verses 46-55, the Magnificat 
And, of course, on Christmas, Luke 2:7-14

Christmas is a strange season!  We cut an evergreen tree and bring it into our living room.  We hang stockings in a conspicuous spot in our home.  Strange behavior!  But, wasn't the first Christmas strange, too?

God nudged unsophisticated shepherds to look up to see a star, and then he nudged them to look down to see a child in a stable.

Who is this God who nudges us still?  God is the high and mighty one who inhabits eternity.  Lift up your head and behold the star!

Who is this God who nudges us still?  God is the one who is self-revealed in a stable.  Lift up your spirit this Advent season and look within to the one who dwells with you.  (John 1:1-14)

God nudges us to move from star to stable, from stable to star.  The mysterious other is God with us.  That is what makes this season of Christmas a strange, hallowed, gracious time.

In an age notorious for dashing hopes, lift up your head that the child who was born in a stable may yet be re-born in you.

Merry Christmas to you and your loved ones!

In friendship,
Richard

Church email:pilgrimpresby@sbcglobal.net



THE PRAYER LIST

Please remember the following individuals in your daily prayers: Richard Evans, Vera Tresler, Mary Draper, John and Louise Gullett , John Burckhalter – illness - Friend of the Church, Patricia Hemphill, Pat Robinson, Joan Dirmyer, Dee Ann George, Adele Davis, Larry Skaggs, family of Eleanor Lewis. Brett Forbes family – Serving in the military

Men and women serving in the military forces, and their families

We light the Peace Candle each Sunday and pray for all men and women currently serving in the military and their families, as well as for all who are suffering from war, persecution and terrorism.


*********************
Bill Dirmyer, brother of Pam Noggle passed away in New York.  Please keep the family in your prayers.


Church Birthdays

are celebrated on the 2nd Sunday of the Month – December 11 – same Sunday as holiday meal.

December 19 – Mary Draper
                  27 – Terry Brown


~~Notes from Session~~


The Session met November 20, 2011 and opened with prayer by Moderator Judy Henderson.   There was a quorum present including the following elders: Kitty Brown, Sarah Bruce, Keith Cresap, Joyce Dishman, Wally Olson, and Sue Ratcliff.   Excused were Irene Conine, Jim Shelton, and Fred York.  The October 9th and October 16th minutes were  approved by common consent.

Under the Treasurer’s Report for October 2011, the Beginning Balance was $5,135.19, Receipts were $2,684.55,  Expenditures were $4,634.21, and the Closing Balance was $3,185.53  The annual Stewardship letter will be mailed to members in November.  Session approved continuing the $1800.00 budgeted to send  annually to Presbytery.  The motion was made by Kitty Brown, there was a 2nd, and the motion carried.

After some discussion on the proposed 2012 Budget, Wally Olson moved to authorize the Treasurer to make the necessary changes to the Budget advised by Session, there was a 2nd, and the motion carried.  

The Clerk’s report included approval of the Annual Review of Session Minutes on October 31, 2011.  The Clerk also noted Session’s acceptance of Richard Evans’ resignation and that notification was sent to Presbytery.  There was no annual Necrology Report.   

Under the Trustees’ Report Keith Cresap reported that he has not received the abstract for the church manse so that final papers can be signed.   Keith also reported on an Allensworth property which was given to the church and will work with the Trustees to come up with a sale price. 

Irene reported for the Worship Committee that ministers and music are in place for the Holiday Season.  Joyce Dishman’s report on our annual Mission giving will be included in the January Session and Congregational meetings.

Sarah Bruce reported for the Sanctuary Guild that Christmas decorations are being planned along with poinsettias which members will be asked to contribute.

Under Old Business in order to update the Active and Inactive Rolls the Clerk is planning to meet with one or two Elders at a time during the month of January either on Sunday after church services or on Monday mornings to work on the rolls and plan a new Church Directory. 

Under New Business Session set the Congregational Meeting date for January 15, 2012.  Items to be included will be the Financial Report, Mission Giving Report, and the election of the 2012 Church Nominating Committee.  Session also set the date of January 15, 2012,  to hold the Ordination and Installation of Elders and Deacons.  Judy Hendersonhas offered to instruct and examine the Elders and Deacons if Presbytery has not appointed a Moderator for our church.

Under Other Business the following Elders will serve as Lay Assistants during December:  Sarah Bruce - December 4th, Kitty Brown - December 11th, Keith Cresap  - December 18th, and Jim Shelton - December 25th.  Communion will be prepared on Sunday, December 4th by Sue Ratcliff.  The worship Assistant for January is Kitty Brown, and Communion will  be prepared on Sunday, January 8th by Joyce Dishman.  

The next Session Meeting will be held on Sunday, January 15, 2012, subject to change if a new Moderator is appointed.  

The meeting was closed at 12:15 p.m. with prayer by Moderator Judy Henderson.

Reverend Judy Henderson, Moderator
Sue Ratcliff, Clerk of Session


The next Session meeting will be held on Sunday, January 15, 2012.



Thank you to:

  • Irene for making arrangements for special music during the Advent and Christmas season and Sue and Irene  for making sure we have a minister each Sunday.
  • Toni for cookies and birthday cake this month.
  • Annette our custodian for the nice clean windows in the kitchen.
  • Irene, Sarah and Toni  for the beautiful Christmas decorations throughout the church.
  • Sarah for the extra serving spoons she donated for the kitchen.

~~Notes from Deacons~~

Deacons met November 20, 2011 with the following present:  Jim Dishman, Shirley Spaulding, Toni Moore, Jeanne Cowley, Dianne Rapp, Jan Clark, Jewell Morgan, Liz Logan.  Plans were made for the Holiday Meal on December 11th.  Burroughs Manor is invited and several parishioners from the Grove church plan to attend since Dr. Richard Evans will be here.  The schedule is A-G salad; H-O vegetable; P-Z dessert.
The meat, bread and drinks will be provided by the church. Set up is Saturday, December 10 at 10:00 a.m. We are planning for 50-60 people.
December cookies and birthday cake assignment is Toni.  Birthday Sunday is same day as Holiday Meal.
There will be no Bingo at Burroughs Manor in December.  Next Bingo will be January 21st.

Jewell Morgan reporting

Next Deacons meeting will be January 15th



Bingo prizes needed for January: Small lotions, small aftershaves, easy puzzle books, tuna and chicken salad packages, small packs of cookies, crackers, paper products, toilet paper, Kleenex, paper towels, small candy bars, small kitchen towels, any candy.  


Congratulations to Mary Kate Shelton and James Craven who were married in our church on November 12.  Mary Kate is the youngest daughter of Jim and Sarah Shelton, granddaughter of Melba Shelton and Mike and Jane Snedden and James is the son of Jim and Vicki Craven and nephew of Debbi Myers.  The beautiful reception was held at the Shelton ranch in the barn and tents that were set up near the home.


The Bruce family is thankful for the use of the kitchen and fellowship hall for their Thanksgiving dinner .The Bruce's are currently remodeling their kitchen.  Sister Robin and her family were able to enjoy our new facility that their uncle James Kerr donated to our church.


□□   CHURCH OFFICERS   □□

Session Members        Deacons

 (Class of ’12) (Class of ’12)
Joyce Dishman Jim Dishman
Wally Olson Dianne Rapp
Jim Shelton

(Class of '13) (Class of '13)
Keith Cresap Jeanne Cowley
Sue Ratcliff Jan Haney
Fred York Toni Moore

(Class of ’14) (Class of ’14)
Sarah Bruce Liz Logan
Irene Conine Shirley Spaulding
Kitty Brown

    

HOLIDAY MEAL 

– December 11 immediately following morning worship.
The turkey, ham, bread, drinks will be provided.  Please bring a covered dish.  

If your last name begins with:

A-G   salad
H-O   vegetable
P-Z    dessert

Richard plans to be here.  
Burroughs Manor residents are invited and a few from the Grove church where Richard was interim for 6 years plan to attend.  Please bring your family and celebrate the holidays with us.


              2011-12                                  2011-12
WORSHIP ASSISTANTS         COMM.  PREPARERS      
December – Elders Share  Dec – Sue Ratcliff
January – Kitty Brown     Jan – Joyce Dishman


St. John's Episcopal Women are hosting a Wine and Cheese/Silent Auction Saturday, December 10 from 4:00 – 6:00 to benefit the Backpack Program and other charities.
The cost is $8.00.










Monday, October 24, 2011

2011.10.24 Monday Morning

Best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma!

Golden memories are the gratitude of the heart. How grateful I am for the five years (1986-1991) Helen and I lived in her old family home in Wales, that small, beautiful land of song.

I remember one morning sitting along the expansive estuary at Bangor, in North Wales. I saw boats - large boats, small boats, pleasure boats, fishing boats. And, all of them were anchored in mud. Every boat tilted, some to the right, others to the left. It was most definitely not a picture post card. The tide was out. The estuary was a mess, grim and unattractive. But, when the tide came in - and it always does - the mud lost its grip on the boats. They stood straight again. Awake, ready to go to sea! Those boats were free to come and go once more.

Bangor Photo...  Probably not the view referred to by Richard, however...

Our lives are often like the tides; some are tempestuous, while others come and go with the smoothness of silk. I like the words of the poet, Dylan Thomas (1914-1954) as the tides of life envelope me.

"Every morning when I wake,
Dear Lord, a little prayer I make.
O please to keep Thy loving eye
On all poor creatures born to die.
And every evening at sundown
I ask a blessing on the town.
For whether we last the night or no
I'm sure is always touch-and-go.

We are not wholly bad or good
Who live our lives under Milk Wood.
And Thou, I know, will be the first
To see our best side, not our worst."

With blessings and in friendship,
Richard


Monday, November 29, 2010

2010.11.29 Monday Morning!


Top of the morning from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma.

I hope you had an enjoyable Thanksgiving Day, and that now you will journey through Advent to Christmas and the glorious celebration of the birth of Jesus.

Nothing is more important than “to keep in touch” with God, with family and with friends.  To “keep in touch” one must be able to share the small and big events of life.  The holidays provide that opportunity, especially when we live far away, in distance and time, from those whom we love and with those who were close to us at different periods in our life.

This story, which I heard tell, is about a minister who loved golf more than almost anything.  He feigned sickness one bright Sunday morning and after his family left for Church, he snuck out the back door and went to his favorite golf course.

There, on the 7th, he shot his first hole in one.  But who could he tell?  He couldn’t share a big moment in his life and he felt embarrassed and empty.

Let Advent and Christmas lead you in the direction of happiness in our complex world.  “Go, tell… that Jesus Christ is born.”  “The Word has become flesh and dwells among us, full of grace and truth.”  (John 1:14)

That’s good news worth sharing!

Richard

Monday, November 8, 2010

Church Announcement (For "On-Site" Types) ;-)


Sun. Nov 14 Deacons Meeting, 9:00 a.m.
Congregational Meeting following morning worship,
Thanksgiving Dinner in new kitchen.

A-G, dessert, H-O, salad, P-Y vegetable

Burroughs Manor residents are invited!


Monday, October 25, 2010

2010.10.25 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, located in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma.

Dare I get personal with you today?  Ordinarily I have an abundance of pep, lately I've been feeling very tired (lazy?).  A week ago I opened William Barclay's book of devotions and on the page that stared at me were these words:  "tiredness is often as much staleness as anything else."  Barclay went on to write that tiredness comes when ones personal resources have been over strained.  He illustrated his point with this example:

"When a car battery is exhausted...it must be brought into contact with a new source of electrical power from which it may be recharged."
Repeatedly, Jesus had to go into a lonely place to pray - to listen to God - so that his strength might be renewed.  What was necessary for Jesus is far more necessary for me.  How about you?  O Lord, keep me from going stale!

With Blessings and Cheers,
Richard

Monday, April 26, 2010

2010.04.26 Monday Morning!

Greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma.

With six to eight members of Pilgrim Church, I spend an hour Monday morning with residents at Burroughs Manor, a retirement home next door to the Church. We call our gathering Monday at Ten. It is a wonderful hour - a "happy hour" - spent in good conversation, singing, a brief message and a closing prayer.

My present intent is to encourage those attending to write their life story. We have unique fingerprints and DNA, but they don't identify us completely. We also have our own soul print. By writing "my story" one shapes ones soul print with loved ones, and it will be cherished for years to come.

Have you written your own story? If you have not, try doing it. Ask yourself "where the meaning of your life lies"? By answering that question I believe you'll remember small things as well as big events.

Here are some tips to get you started: Who were your early childhood friends? What games did you play? Did you take music lessons? What books did you enjoy reading? What school did you attend - rural, town or city?

Did your family have a car? What make? What year? Do you have an idea of the cost of the car? Comparing costs in the past with costs today will be interesting. What did an ice cream cone cost? How much did it take to get into a double feature movie?

What were your favorite radio programs before TV? What's new in the world since your youth? Computers? Cell phones? What else?

Your story will be interesting because it is unique. What a treasure it will be to your descendants. It will be well worth your efforts. Try it!

Richard

Monday, February 1, 2010

2010.02.01 Monday Morning!

Top of this Monday Morning, and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church in Vinita, Oklahoma.

I've been thinking about many who were brought up in the church, who attended Sunday School and Youth Fellowship and sang in the choir, and who now are drifting away from the church altogether. Oh, I know most of the reasons why...sermons are long and dull...hymns are ancient, and often drag...and it's just comfortable staying home to enjoy a relaxing Sunday morning, or to catch up on household chores.

Nevertheless, I'm old fashioned enough to believe that worship, within a community of faith, provides an experience of joy that comes from a personal fellowship with God and from meeting friends who share that fellowship with you.

Worship is a rich privilege! If you don't believe that consider the plight of Christians living in a place where they are forbidden to gather for worship. They risk their lives by worshipping in what we call "underground churches".

Worship offers an opportunity to withdraw from the haste and speed of our modern world and to be enriched by God's Spirit. From that experience flows a renewed desire to serve the wants and needs of the neighborhood and world.

To give up on worship means, in the long run, the loss of a priceless gem of the soul.


Richard

PS: I'm glad to say that about 70% of the resident members of Pilgrim Church regularly find their way to Sunday worship!

Monday, August 10, 2009

2009.08.10 Monday Morning - Recycled!

Good Morning!

Following is Dr. Evans first Monday Morning message. Enjoy!

Grace and peace,

Donna J


--- On Mon, 9/24/07, Pilgrim Prsbytrn Church wrote:

Greetings from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma. If you feel today's message is worth sharing, please send it to those in your email address book. If you send me an email, if you have a prayer request, be certain that I will answer. Richard


We always talk about dependence on God, forgetting that God also depends on us for so many things.

God cannot make a peaceful world unless we help him root out hatred, prejudice and injustice.

God cannot build a happy home unless husband and wife have a sharing spirit and mutual respect.

God heals the sick but not without doctors, nurses, hospitals and their staff, research, prayers and encouragement of family and friends.

God needs us. We certainly need God. We are joined in a great partnership.


With blessings and in friendship; KEEP IN TOUCH!!

Richard Evans

Monday, May 4, 2009

2009.05.04 Monday Morning!

For some of you who at one time lived in the Vinita area, and who are now scattered across the country and overseas, I send special greetings from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church this MONDAY MORNING. Memories are important, and I want you to know we remember you.

An ancient Greek legend came to mind as I prepared to share in a funeral service for a dear young friend. The legend speaks of a woman who arrived at the River Styx, where Charon, a gentle ferryman, stood ready to take her to the realm of departed spirits.

Charon told her she could drink of the water and completely forget what she was leaving behind. She thought about that, and asked questions: Shall I forget how I've suffered? Shall I forget my failures and how I've been hurt? The ferryman said yes, and then reminded her that she would also forget her victories, her successes, her happy times. And she would forget how she had been loved.

The legend concludes by saying that she did not drink of the water.

"Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all God's benefits." 

Memories are the stuff of life.

And that's why we send you MONDAY MORNING!  We want to keep in touch!


Richard

Sunday, December 7, 2008

2008.12.08 Monday Morning!

Advent greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, located in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma. The hope of Monday Morning, these weekly messages, is to keep in touch, and responses received indicate that is being achieved.

Do you ever read the comic strips? I've been an avid fan of "Pogo" no longer with us, and "Peanuts", still appearing though its creator, Charles Schultz, is dead. There is a lot of sound theology in the comics!

I remember when Charlie Brown and Lucy were leaning against a tree and Lucy asks, "What do you think security is?"
Charlie, or "Chuck" as Lucy calls him, replies: "Security? Security is sleeping in the back seat of the car when you're a little kid and it's night. Your parents are in the front seats and they've done all the worrying. They take care of everything."
Lucy smiles and says: "That's real neat."
"But," Charlie Brown says, "it doesn't always last. Suddenly you're grown up. And it can never be that way again. Suddenly it's over and you'll never go to sleep in the back seat again. Never!"
Lucy gets a sad and scared look on her face and says: "Never?" Then Charlie, who has scared himself with this terrible truth, says, "Never."
In the last picture Lucy, aware of the real world, reaches over to Charlie and says: "Hold my hand, hold my hand!"

We can't hold one another's hand over the miles, but we can "keep in touch." Isn't that what the gospel teaches?

"Keep in touch", my friends...keep in touch with loved ones, with friends, and with the God whom we know in the face of the Babe of Bethlehem.

Peace,
Richard

Sunday, August 10, 2008

2008.08.11 Monday Morning!

Top of the morning...greetings and best wishes from Pilgrim Presbyterian Church, located in the heart of Vinita, Oklahoma.

If you are in the Vinita area on Sunday, you are invited to our 10 o'clock morning worship. The Rev. Neal Dancer is our pastor this summer, and he is a good preacher with a big pastoral heart.

One question...are you "keeping in touch" with God during these summer months? The Book of Psalms will help in your devotions. They are an important part of Christian-Jewish worship, and touch at every point of life. Nowhere else have people, through the centuries, found themselves in closer touch with God than in the Psalter.

Here are a few Psalms, from the first part of the book, which are my favorites. I hope they may become a part of your favorites, too!

Psalm 1;8;9;16;19;23;24; and 27; 31;32;33;46

And, read these verses: Psalm 18:1-3; 20:7; 31:24.

More suggested readings to come!

Richard